C'est pas tout à fait le sujet mais dans le thème il faut que je partage un texte que j'ai vu sur instagram, il m'a énormément fait rire et j'adore la bienveillance de cette femme
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the_yoni_empire
SEXY SARDINES
When you imagine a woman self-pleasuring, it’s usually some sensual erotic scene in your mind. No one talks about the fact that many of us, when we mast*rbate, we look like half dead sardines, flapping our bodies lazily, sweatpants sliding off one buttcheek, eyes rolling back, hair sweaty & stuck to one cheek, lying on your belly, groaning like a meercat in heat, while buzzing your clitt to oblivion with a dirty fantasy in your head that you dont even dare google for fear of your computer exploding from shame.
#awkward .
And when your lover asks to see how you self-pleasure, you put on a sensual sexy show, really far from the hoorny sardine gasping for air. God forbid they see us in our raw shame, our real sardine zombie jerk off...(except they have their own shame...but no one talks about this). We are all too busy performing sexyness for each other.
#fishybusiness
And then one day, during love making, you allow yourself to be seen. You let your inner sardine out, so to say. Something about this lover feels safe, like home. So you touch yourself, flapping in your helpless pleasure, lazy eye & all. You let them witness it - your PURE awkward pleasure. The PURE you. Your lover simply holds the space. They lie/sit next to you and stroke your hair while you jerk off and dribble on the pillow. No judgement. No expectation. Simply witnessing you DOING you. Ya know?
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THAT, my friends, is what I call a meeting of two polarities, two magnets - one of pure vulnerability and the other of pure compassion. Two sides of the same coin. TWO SOULS. THAT’S f*cking love & intimacy, my kittens!!!
THAT is erotic blissful freedom. Often our greatest pleasure lives in our greatest shame....
Our vulnerability invites compassion. Our compassion fuels vulnerability. I welcome all of you to step into this place together with your partners. Its scary as fuck, I know. But unless you’ve squeled like a horny meercat in front of your partner and chocked on your orgasm, have you even had s*x with them? But what would I know?! Im just a sardine having a human experience. "